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Change the script on victim blaming.
If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.
What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.
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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.
Your Messages of Support
Victims don't deserve to be blamed or stigmatized they deserve to be treated with compassion patience and respect as we all do but judging them and blaming them is wrong.alot of victims are suffering in silence beaue they are to affraid to speak out or are feel no one will beli
May 2026
You are not alone. It was not you fault.
Your trauma does not define you. Walk on in peace and love.
May 2026
You are not alone
Dont blame yourself, we dont think like them ,thats why you dont see it coming, just because your nice or help someone, doesn't give them the right to a free for all...to take advantage of,abuse,scar,belittle,leave forever more changed...your not alone ,talk to someone,it might take 20 someone's until someone listens, and your finally heard,your not alone .
May 2026
I stand with you
To every victim reading this: what happened to you was not your fault.You deserved safety, respect, kindness, and to be heard. Speaking up takes courage, and even surviving in silence takes strength most people will never fully understand.Victim blaming has no place in Aotearoa. Healing is hard enough without people questioning, minimising, or judging the pain someone has lived through.Your voice matters. Your story matters. And you are worthy of support, compassion, and justice.
May 2026
These offences against people need to be stopped, the courts need to recognise that this type of behaviour causes death and permanent injury to people every year - we have the highest level of this criminal activity in the OECD nothing to be proud of!
I have personally travelled the brutal journey of partner abuse - my thoughts and prayers are with anyone who is being subjected to that level of violence whether physical or emotional
May 2026
I'm so sorry that happened to you/ that was your experience (with police and family court, Oranga tamariki), you didnt deserve that. How can I best support you? (As a survivor myself there is a huge amount of stigma around Family Violence but speaking about it stops the shame taking over and advocating for women and children in a very broken system in a country with horrific DV and child mental health stats we need to be doing more the prevention space
May 2026
