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Change the script on victim blaming.
If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.
What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.
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Your Messages of Support
Victim blaming, the second assault
Victim blaming is a second violation. It shifts blame from those who caused harm onto those who suffered it. Perpetrators know the disgust and disgrace they face if exposed, so they lie, manipulate, and recast themselves as the victim. It’s deliberate. It silences the truth, isolates the harmed, and protects those responsible. Ending it means refusing the lie and placing accountability where it belongs.
Apr 2026
Its not your fault
Apr 2026
Its not your fault. Stay strong whanau staying strong. This too will pass. Be kind to yourself. Live in love not pain.
Apr 2026
I am an abuse as child and teen #survivor.Of victim blaming too.Never let them do it now.One of essential few.Never allow it
Apr 2026
Victim blaming sillyness
If the story you tell is unbelievable it is not because it didn't happen, but because it shouldn't happen. Blaming someone for something that shouldn't have happened is just silly. Know that you are dealing with sillyness when, as a victim, you are accused. Stand your ground.
Apr 2026
KIA KAHA -STAND STRONG
Guilt is what the perpetrators want you to feel. Hurt is what they want you to feel. This all ends in the shame they want you to take fault for. Know your worth. Love yourself. Believe in yourself. Trust your instincts. But most of all, blanket yourself in YOUR trust. YOUR love. We got this!🤩🧡💛🩵💜
Mar 2026
